Recover From a Break Up - 5 Tips to Get Back on Your Feet

By Renee Pullman

If you want to recover from a break up, if your relationship has ended for whatever reason and you want to get back on your feet then you are already half way there. Many wallow in sorrow after a breakup and fail to move forward until something happens outside of them. You are halfway there because you are ready to take charge and get yourself together.

There is no need to mope and second guess yourself. Relationships end and begin all of the time. It is part of some larger natural process. Thing is you can use it for good, life just handed you a message and you need to understand what it is so you can move on to better things, so you can move on to the great life with great relationships as intended for everyone. Here are 5 tips to help you heed the message and get back on your feet:

1. Use the experience to grow. A relationship break up releases incredible emotions and an energy that can drag you down or alternatively be used to move in a new direction.


2. Learn from the experience, life hands us many lessons and as with emotions we can use the lessons to move in a more positive direction or use it to justify our failure and unworthiness.


3. Look at where you are in the major areas of your life, it is time to take stock. Where are you financially, spiritually, physically, relationship wise, and do you know how to have fun?


4. Evaluate what went wrong in your relationship and to the extent the failure was your fault, consider what you would do differently. Was the relationship second to your job? Many grew up in homes where the parent was always at work and they pick up the same addiction. If this is you consider what a proper balance should be.


5. Begin to picture your ideal day in your ideal life. Build a vision, see the future, put yourself into the vision and see and touch it all. Make it real and believe it. This will activate your subconscious mind to produce it. Don't dwell on what you need to produce this life, only consider and rehearse the vision daily. Your subconscious will bring the ideas for you to act on, and will build the plan.

The big take away is consider what has happened and where you are. Correct the things that you may have done that you have power over. If you've let your body, finances, spiritual life, etc deteriorate then look at what you need to do. If it is your body then begin to do small things to get on track and as you progress other things will appear for you to do. These things will naturally present themselves and you can integrate them into your life. Same idea for finances and every issue that you uncover.

Keep tip 5 as a daily ritual as you fall asleep and perhaps again on waking. You will begin to draw the life you want into your reality.

Recovering from a relationship is an interesting time. There is such power released along with all the emotions and you need to learn how to direct them for your long term good.

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Get a Woman Back

By Renee Pullman

In most relationships by the time someone leaves, a wife or girlfriend, there is so much frustration and anger that it seems like a good thing. Many couples go through many cycles of breaking up or coming close to it before the break up really happens. When it does happen if may seem like a good thing, but after some time it may not seem that way anymore. But just saying, "sorry" is not the way to get a woman back.

With the history most couples have it becomes a challenge to know the best way to work with the relationship. There is history and patterns that can be challenging to break.

So how do you change all of that and overcome the patterns?

1. You have to be willing to change. If you are going to get her back you need to make changes to the things that you did that caused trouble in your relationship. Did you make fun of her dreams or fears? Did you get angry too quickly? Did you not accept constructive criticism? Maybe you were just a slob. Whatever it is be ready to address it and apologize for it.


2. Here is a big one, be ready to apologize for wrongs but don't go to her like a whipped dog and look desperate. Desperation is the quickest way to turn a woman off. Go confidently apologize and be done with it.


3. No stalking, don't always be where she is. Instead allow some space and time. If you bump into her that's one thing but don't just be where she is going to be. Allow the space and time and use it to concentrate on improving yourself.


4. After some time has passed she might be missing you. It's a good time to call her and catch up over coffee. Just be casual. Don't tell her you want to talk about the relationship, that could very well be fight talk. Instead you just want to be casual so she can see the changes in you that you have worked on. No don't tell her about them, let her see them and believe.

This easy, almost too simple advice works great to get a woman back. It can help you too, but the key is to do all the steps, let the time pass, work on yourself, don't be calling or stalking her. Be sincere, be confident, and follow the simple plan and get your woman back.

Sometimes it only takes a single new idea to bring a break through that will help you get a woman back. You have that idea in this article - don't just read about it, put it into action.

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Get Back Together With an Ex - How to Win Her Back

By Renee Pullman

There is a lot of advice about how to get back together with an ex. Soon after a break up many realize that they shouldn't have broken up at all, that they should have stayed with their ex. Just because your relationship isn't hot all the time they think they should break up. The other mans grass isn't always greener (Erma Bombeck said, "the grass is greener over the septic tank"). It turns out they really did love their ex and they really did wind up over the septic tank. Has this happened in your relationship?

After you've broken someones heart it is tough to recover, tough to get them to trust and love you again; it is difficult but not impossible.

It is all about trust, trust that is broken and trust that will take time and patience to rebuild and you need to understand this as you start the process of getting back with your ex. And, if you decide to try to push things fast you will probably scare your ex off for good. Promise to take it slow and easy OK? Promise to make the time investment that it takes.

1. When rebuilding trust you must consider how you screwed up the first time. What were your mistakes that took the relationship down the drain? Are you willing to work on those mistakes? Can you fix character flaws or whatever the things were that caused the problems? Can you make the permanent changes that you need to make?


2. Give your ex a lot of space as you figure this out. You don't need to be robo calling and texting at all hours. You need some space and time, enough to allow them to begin to miss you. You probably have a long history of broken promises and failure to change and so your ex has no reason to believe that you will change, don't talk about your plans to anyone, keep the changes to yourself as you make them. When you do see your ex the changes will begin to show themselves and this is powerful: your ex will discover the changes for themselves.


3. It may take several months of self-work while you address all the issues and make the changes. Only then should you call up the ex and try to set up a meeting. Be casual about it, don't mention the relationship or getting back together. But if it goes well your ex will begin to notice the new you and your ex may be the one to introduce the idea of getting back together.

Those are the basics of rebuilding trust and it is the best way to get back together with an ex.

Sometimes it only takes a single new idea to bring a break through that will help you get back together with an ex. This idea has worked for many people and it can for you too. But don't just read about it, put it into action.

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